
define('DISABLE_WP_CRON', true);{"id":4037,"date":"2012-01-28T15:11:43","date_gmt":"2012-01-28T05:11:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/?p=4037"},"modified":"2012-01-28T15:15:31","modified_gmt":"2012-01-28T05:15:31","slug":"the-big-decision-made","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/4037\/","title":{"rendered":"The Big Decision Made"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/111005-152449-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"111005-152449\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4038\" srcset=\"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/111005-152449-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/111005-152449.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m officially a stay-at-home mum (who also runs her own online store &#038; blogs &#8230; and will freelance, but that&#8217;s another story). <\/p>\n<p>I had a talk to my boss last week and after thinking long &#038; hard about it, I didn&#8217;t want to drag him on &#038; on with not knowing what my\/our schedule is like this week, next month, 3 months from now. We&#8217;re also doing okay with our savings (yay for being boring &#038; thrifty!) so I&#8217;ve started off this year with a clean slate and no official &#8216;job&#8217;. <\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s not to say I won&#8217;t try to make money some how &#8211; it&#8217;s just that I won&#8217;t be employed until Jovie&#8217;s settled into a routine and I know what days I can work so I don&#8217;t stuff around another employer &#8230; <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been a harder decision than I thought it would be. On one hand, Jovie &#038; Jasper are my priority &#8211; if they need me I&#8217;m going to do whatever I can. On the other hand, I&#8217;ve always worked and have been with the same company for just over 10 years. It&#8217;s all I&#8217;ve done and leaving it makes me nervous. And I&#8217;ve always wanted to contribute financially to our family, so I feel a bit like a loser for not giving that support. I know I&#8217;m doing an important job taking care of the kids, but it&#8217;s a big change for me. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve toyed around with working night-shifts somewhere but I&#8217;d still have to run around with the kids in the day and would probably tire myself out before I knew it. I&#8217;m still thinking of studying for my childcare certificate &#8211; I&#8217;d love to run a special needs playgroup in my area one day. <\/p>\n<p>I know we&#8217;ll be okay but being an one-income family when there&#8217;s a child with special needs is daunting! <\/p>\n<p>Wish us luck x<\/p>\n<p><em>Picture taken months ago when wearing layers didn&#8217;t induce terror<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m officially a stay-at-home mum (who also runs her own online store &#038; blogs &#8230; and will freelance, but that&#8217;s another story). I had a talk to my boss last week and after thinking long &#038; hard about it, I didn&#8217;t want to drag him on &#038; on with not knowing what my\/our schedule is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4037","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-anything-everything"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4037","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4037"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4037\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4041,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4037\/revisions\/4041"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4037"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4037"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4037"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}