define('DISABLE_WP_CRON', true);{"id":4512,"date":"2012-08-14T16:10:33","date_gmt":"2012-08-14T06:10:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/?p=4512"},"modified":"2012-08-14T16:10:33","modified_gmt":"2012-08-14T06:10:33","slug":"in-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/4512\/","title":{"rendered":"in therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.etsy.com\/listing\/92899605\/retro-inspirational-quote-giclee-art\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/difficultiesmastered.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"difficultiesmastered\" width=\"480\" height=\"537\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4513\" srcset=\"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/difficultiesmastered.jpg 480w, http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/difficultiesmastered-268x300.jpg 268w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>yesterday was my first therapy appointment. not Jovie&#8217;s, not Jasper&#8217;s, mine &#8211; and that feels weird to say. <\/p>\n<p>coming from a woman who maybe gets her hair cut every 7 months (i&#8217;m currently sporting some major horse hair here &#8211; neighhhh), doing something for myself is a bit foreign. sure, every now and then mum takes the kids and i stay at home to clean or blog or run errands, but that&#8217;s not &#8216;me time&#8217; is it? <\/p>\n<p>but i did have a good session yesterday and while i won&#8217;t go into details, i do think the psychologist and i will work well together. an interesting thing that did come up was the concept of habits, and how we fall into them and don&#8217;t realise what&#8217;s going on until it turns into an issue. <\/p>\n<p>figuring out where we&#8217;ve let ourselves down, and why, can be a hard thing to do. it&#8217;s not often you get that kind of clarity or want to seek out a solution for it. but i&#8217;m happy to get a little messy, to come out a little cleaner. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.etsy.com\/listing\/92899605\/retro-inspirational-quote-giclee-art\">image source is this awesome print<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>yesterday was my first therapy appointment. not Jovie&#8217;s, not Jasper&#8217;s, mine &#8211; and that feels weird to say. coming from a woman who maybe gets her hair cut every 7 months (i&#8217;m currently sporting some major horse hair here &#8211; neighhhh), doing something for myself is a bit foreign. sure, every now and then mum [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4512","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-inside-out"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4512","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4512"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4512\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4518,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4512\/revisions\/4518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4512"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4512"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sh1ft.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4512"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}