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on toilet training

Posted on January 19th, 2011 by Tracey

so… it’s safe to say that my Jasper, now just over 3 years old, is toilet trained!

i’ve had many ‘tsk tsk’s’ and some ‘oh, really? not yet?’ comments over the past 2 years about why he wasn’t toilet trained yet – but you know what? he wasn’t ready, i wasn’t going to push him and i’m happy to say it all worked out relatively easy without hassles

i decided that the summer holiday was the perfect time to try again – i had 2 weeks off work and it was hot enough to walk around with no pants on (Jasper, not me! lol). in the first few days, maybe 2 accidents? and since then – nothing. we were really expecting a literal crap festival – i had bought extra carpet cleaning stuff and had them on hand but i haven’t had to use it. i count ourselves lucky!

my tips if you’re after it – is to not make it a stressful thing, if they’re not ready then they’re just not. try again in a few weeks time. we waited until Jasper was very competent in following instructions and he understood what we were talking about and just let him know what the toilet was for. treats work, but try and phase them out really quickly if possible. i don’t like to reward too much for doing something that should be second nature. go cold turkey from day 1 – no nappies anymore, or at least none during the day time. they won’t like getting wet and dirty so should be more open to going to the potty or toilet.

phew! so glad to have that sorted 😛

mid flight

Posted on November 27th, 2010 by Tracey

i try to make weekends especially fun for the kids – especially Jasper. monday to friday i’m pretty much ‘work mum’, so saturday and sunday i try to make the effort to get out and see new places with them – something that they’d enjoy, of course!

yesterday, i had a swim date with Jasper at the local pool and lunch today with my sister. Jovie’s not quite at the stage where she is really enjoying things (on purpose), but i can’t wait until she is. there will be many mummy/daughter shopping trips and treats in store…

a year without necklaces

Posted on November 11th, 2010 by Tracey

actually, it’s more like 3 years without necklaces!

ever since Jasper was born, i’ve haven’t bothered to wear much jewellery. necklaces especially, since babies tend to occupy my front side most hours of the day, lol, and those babies tend to chew on anything that hangs near their face.

with Jovie understanding ‘no’ more and more, and me wanting to actually try and dress nice for once, i thought it would be cool to look for a great necklace for myself as a xmas pressie 😀 i haven’t found anything yet, but i know i’m bound to…

was there anything small that you gave up once you had a baby aswell?

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